I like a made bed. I mean truly, who doesn’t? There is something complete about a day when, at the end of it, you can slip between the cool sheets of a neat bed. I try hard to make the bed everyday. I’m laughing at myself as I type this because I know for a fact that my bed is a mess currently. Some days other things win out.
I remember one day I was upstairs rushing to get my shoes on, so I could run out the door. My family was waiting for me in the car. I ran past the bed and then stopped. I glanced at the strewn covers over my shoulder. “Well, maybe if I do it really quick.” I grabbed the blanket and sheet simultaneously and tossed it on the bed. I tucked the bottom edges, fixed the pillows and then realized I’d put the sheet and blanket on sideways. They only came about three-fourths of the way up our bed.
I knew I didn’t have time to fix it then, but I decided I’d get to it later. Then another thought hit me. What if I just left it? What if when Tony and I climbed into bed we giggled about how our blankets only came up to our belly buttons. What if the imperfection paved the way for a much needed light-hearted moment? Why would I want to rob us of that?
Some imperfections are just worth going un-checked in our lives.








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this was so sweet….yes, choosing which “perfect” imperfections to keep and which to toss is constantly something I have to face in SO many areas! When my perfectionist tendencies impede on my quality of life, it’s not worth it…so I’ve been sleeping soundly in our bedroom, which mine as well be a STORAGE closet so that my daughter can have her own bedroom rather than my office/art room which is what it was before…the delight on her face was worth moving all the JUNK in my room!
Eventually though, I will need to clean out my room, but it can wait for a week when the kidlets go back to school….
You’re so right Mandy….ANYTIME I can laugh at my imperfections or my kids/spouse/friends just strenghthens those bonds that hold us together. Think: Inside joke here
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